"WHAT IS" IS BETTER

"First of all, the fears that push you about
are not legitimate, appropriate responses to
What Is, 
such as warnings of danger ahead.
Instead, they're constricting fantasies of
What If.

I would suggest that the next time a What If
starts badgering you,
look it straight in the eyes and ask it
'All right, what's the very worst that could happen?'

And when it answers, ask yourself, 
'What could I do about it?'
You'll find there always will be something. 
Then you'll see that you can have power in any situation                                                                        
And when you realize that, the fears will go away."                                                 "The Te of Piglet",  by Benjamin Hoff


Start your week with a day of What Is, 
then try a week, then a month...  step outside of the fear            and you'll start making better decisions faster!